Why Your Arguments are Going Nowhere
Every now and then a couple comes to me saying things like: -“We have a really strong relationship.” -“We usually communicate really well.” -“We just have this one problem that we can’t work through—can you help us?!” Committed couples make a lot of decisions...
Why “The Pina Colada Song” Makes Me Cry
You know the song Escape by Rupert Holmes? If you like pina coladas…and getting caught in the rain… I had always thought of it as a fun, cheesy summer time song that would pop up on the oldies station. I hadn’t ever really paid attention to the lyrics. ...
One Month to More Connection in Your Relationship
31 discussion topics to get you on the road to better intimacy. One way we build intimacy and connection is to be able to share important/deeper parts of ourselves with our partner and for them to be able to truly hear us when we do. This exercise can be done daily...
Office Tour on Fresh Practice Design
This week, my midtown Sacramento office was featured on Fresh Practice Design. Fresh Practice Design lets you peak into therapists’ offices across the country. I am a regular reader–I love seeing the diverse decor choices and hearing from therapists...
