by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
You lost someone you love and it seems like everyone is saying things like… “They’re in a better place.” “You’ll see them again one day.” “They would want you to move on.” “At least you got to say goodbye.” “At least they aren’t in pain anymore.” “At least you...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
In addition to the counseling I do with couples, I spent 4 years facilitating relationship groups at a Sacramento community agency. I loved this work—and to make it even better, I led the groups with my spouse. We were able to play a part in helping to strengthen...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
So many of us battle perfectionistic traits. No matter how hard we try, we fall short of our own standards. This can lead to harmful self-judgement, shame, chronic stress. Maybe these standards came from society’s expectations, a less than nurturing caregiver,...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
These words bring me so much comfort whether I’m reciting them to a friend, hearing them from my partner, or repeating them in my mind. Feeling alone is a natural part of being human. We’ve all felt this way. And it can be painful. Next time you are...
