by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
When we give ourselves permission to grieve, we often move through 5 stages of grief. We don’t move through these stages in any specific order, though. And we can absolutely go back and forth through the emotions—or move to acceptance and still have days pop up where...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
What is Gottman Method Couples Therapy? Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman of The Gottman Institute, Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a research-based approach to strengthening relationships. Dr. John Gottman has been studying relationships for decades, gaining...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
You lost someone you love and it seems like everyone is saying things like… “They’re in a better place.” “You’ll see them again one day.” “They would want you to move on.” “At least you got to say goodbye.” “At least they aren’t in pain anymore.” “At least you...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
In addition to the counseling I do with couples, I spent 4 years facilitating relationship groups at a Sacramento community agency. I loved this work—and to make it even better, I led the groups with my spouse. We were able to play a part in helping to strengthen...
by Megan Lara Negendank, MS | Relationships
So many of us battle perfectionistic traits. No matter how hard we try, we fall short of our own standards. This can lead to harmful self-judgement, shame, chronic stress. Maybe these standards came from society’s expectations, a less than nurturing caregiver,...
